In this post you’ll discover:
- The 3 steps to trusting a man (and it’s NOT what you think!)
- Why it’s so easy to trust when you know how.
- The 3 essential questions to ask yourself when you have trust issues
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Hi, it’s Lisa Page here responding to a question from one of our clients in the Philippines.
Recently I received a question from a client in the Philippines about trust.
She felt confused, frustrated and vulnerable because she didn’t know whether she could trust her man or not.
I get asked questions about trust in relationship a lot.
Sometimes it’s from women in relationship who feel confused about whether to trust their man. Other times it’s from single women who are sick of attracting men who just can’t be trusted!
Oftentimes we project outwards, and we want to know ‘Is this man trustable?’, or ‘Is my man being trustable?’
That’s all well and good, but the truth is this…
Knowing whether to trust someone, starts with YOU!
I promise you, that if I lined up seven men in front of you that you’d never met, you’d be able to look at each man, feel into him, and tell me which man you’d trust!
You’d know which man you’d trust with your money, which man you’d trust more to be a good lover, which man you’d trust more to be a good husband, which man you feel would be a good father, or anything else.
It’s something you can do naturally. It’s one of your gifts as a beautiful, feminine, intuitive woman.
When you trust yourself, you can scan any man and feel into whether he is trustable, and in what ways.
The question is, do you trust your feminine wisdom?
If you’re single, do you trust what you feel about the man you’re dating?
If you’re in relationship, do you trust what you feel about the man you’re with?
And if you trust what you feel, do you trust yourself to express how you feel?
Do you trust yourself to act in alignment with how you feel?
That’s the real question here.
This issue around trust is not so much about whether you should trust your man or not, it’s about whether you trust yourself!
For example, you may be in a situation where you don’t feel that your man is being trustable in your relationship. Maybe he’s being a bit flirty with other women.
You feel it intuitively, but the question is, can you trust yourself to feel the feelings this creates in you, and then to express how you feel to him when he does it?
Can you trust yourself to say to him “I feel vulnerable and hurt when I feel you being flirty with other women”?
Can you trust yourself to act in alignment with what your feminine wisdom is telling you?
That’s the key to trust in relationship.
My invitation to you today is to explore your issues around trust, NOT in relation to other people, but in relation to yourself.
- Do you trust yourself to feel how you feel when someone does or says something?
- Do you trust yourself to then express how you’re feeling?
- Do you trust yourself to act on what your inner wisdom is telling you?
And if you don't, then that's where you work begins!
Your work is to recognize and let go of whatever underlying tensions you have about expressing how you feel, or acting in alignment with your deep feminine wisdom, you inner guidance.
So what about you?
When have you trusted your feminine wisdom and acted on it?
What are your challenges around trust?
I really want to know your questions and your story. So enter it in the comments box below.
What YOU think matters! YOUR experience matters. And it will inspire other women in their ability to build trust in relationship.
So get the conversation started, leave your comments below, and share this post with your friends!
Much love,
Lisa
xxx
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